Excellent and very true.
I always get the same thing. I hold open the door for people, yet people never hold open doors for me. I mean, I can understand if I'm too far away, but if I'm right behind a person and they obviously know I'm there, that's rather rude to just let it slam in my face.
I too get the obnoxious women who are like, "No no, go ahead. I don't need you to hold open a door for me."
Also, I get the same, but opposite reaction from guys. Like... As a guy, you can't hold the door open for another guy apparently. Even when you do, they HAVE to touch the door themselves to be like, "Oh yeah, hey... by the way, I know how to hold open a fucking door!" They don't say it, but the way it is, it implies that.
Also, I work in retail, and know full well about what you're talking about with the parents who have children in strollers and in the way of stuff, but yet have no regard for their child.
I question the parenting skills of most of the parents I see daily. If I was a parent, my children would come first and foremost. I've seen children trying to talk to their parents, trying to learn and observe about the world around them, asking their parents for some sort of confirmation or acknowledgment about the most trivial things. It takes literally like, 10 times for a parent to respond. What if the kid was being kidnapped?
"Mom... Hey mom."
*silence*
"Uh, mom"
*silence*
...Oh, were you saying something? *child is no longer there*
Way to pay attention to your kids. >_>